I found the following quote in Charles Swindoll’s book entitled “Esther: A Woman of Strength and Dignity”. Does that convict you or what!!
When, because of your faith, your life too becomes perceptibly different; when your reactions are quite opposite to what the situation seems to call for and your activities can no longer be explained in terms of your personality; that is when your neighborhood will sit up and take notice. In the eyes of the world, it is not our relationship with Jesus Christ that counts; it is our resemblance to Him! – Ray Stedman